Real Relationships

Real relationships between youth with and without disabilities often do not just happen. Time and effort are needed to get to know each other. It is helpful to meet and spend time together. Like all relationships, having enough time to listen and learn from each other is important. But youth with disabilities often do not have access to the same opportunities and places that their peers use to form friendships.

The following video clip shows students with and without disabilities from two schools in the Natural Supports Project beginning down a path toward real relationships with each other.

• The first clip is at an outdoor challenge course where students wanted to go to build unity within their team. They are where all students balance on a swing bridge without talking to each other.
• The next clip is at a Homecoming parade where students organized to decorate a float and pass out candy to the crowds.
• The last clip is an ice-breaking activity to help students see what they have in common with each other.

Enjoy the footage of students taking the first steps to building real relationships. Then reflect on the following questions:

• How do relationships develop?
• What are different ways to listen to someone?
• How can youth empower each other?
• Why are these experiences important?

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